Alexandra Kotowski (Zimbabwe)

Alex is a Master of Public Administration student at Columbia University’s School of International & Public Affairs, where she studies Human Rights & Humanitarian Policy with a focus on gender. At SIPA, Alex is a graduate research intern with UNICEF, in which capacity she works on the intersection of child protection and gender-based violence prevention in humanitarian emergencies. Before coming to Columbia, Alex spent five years at Human Rights Watch, first as a Development & Outreach Associate and later as a Senior Associate for the Women’s Rights Division. At Human Rights Watch, she supported research and advocacy on a range of women’s rights issues, including gender-based violence, reproductive and maternal health, women and girls in humanitarian emergencies, the rights of indigenous women, and child marriage. Alex also conducted field research on the water crisis on First Nation reservations in Canada. Alex holds an undergraduate degree in Comparative Politics from Wesleyan University, where she wrote her honors thesis about Roma political mobilization and the far right in Europe. She has also interned at Amnesty International, the Legal Aid Society of New York, and the Romedia Foundation, which is a Roma rights organization in Budapest, Hungary.

Child Marriage from New York to Harare

07 Jun

Child marriage activists and Assembly woman Amy Paulin hold a press conference to talk about proposed legislation to end child marriage in New York State. Photo: Taylor Ahearn.


In a few days, I’ll be flying to Harare, Zimbabwe to begin my Peace Fellowship working with the Woman Advocacy Project (WAP) to support their efforts to combat child marriage.

As I prepare for my fellowship, I’m aware of the fact that Zimbabwe—which recognizes 18 as the legal minimum age for marriage—has stronger child marriage laws than my home country, the United States, does. Shockingly, 49 US states currently permit legal child marriages.

While the global issue of child marriage is not commonly associated with the US, it is a persistent and under-reported problem across the country. According to marriage license data compiled by the advocacy group Unchained at Last, more than 167,000 children in the US aged 17 and younger married between 2000 and 2010. The vast majority of them were girls marrying adult men. While states set 18 as the minimum age for marriage, all but Delaware currently allow exceptions to this minimum—for example, if the girl is pregnant, or if the marriage is sanctioned by her parents.

In the past four years, I have been involved in efforts to support child marriage eradication projects in Tanzania, Nepal, Bangladesh, and the US. Whether a girl is married in Dhaka or Downtown Brooklyn, early marriage threatens her mental and physical health, heightens the risk that violence will be used against her, and often permanently ends her education.

Until last year, children age 14 and 15 were legally permitted to marry in New York State with permission from a judge and their parents. Photo: Alex Kotowski.


In the US, girls who marry before the age of 19 are twice as likely to drop out of high school, which restricts their future job prospects and increases their dependence on their husbands and families. A girl without a high school diploma has limited options if she is trapped in an abusive marriage, since it is often extremely difficult for her to seek the legal assistance or social services that would be necessary for her to escape. Children under 18 have difficulties securing legal representation because contracts with minors are voidable. Groups like Unchained at Last have experienced difficulty trying to help minors escape abusive partnerships because they could be accused of kidnapping.

The good news is that recent years have seen growing momentum against the problem of child marriage, in both Zimbabwe and the United States. In 2016, Zimbabwe’s Constitutional Court set 18 as the minimum marriage age for girls and boys—crucially allowing no exceptions—which was the result of a lawsuit that had been brought against the government by two former child brides, Loveness Mudzura and Ruvimbo Tsopodzi. Last month, Delaware became the first state in the US to set 18 as its minimum marriage age—again, allowing no exceptions. While these decisions represent important steps in the right direction, much remains to be done.

This summer I’ll be working with the Advocacy Project to help prevent child marriages in Zimbabwe, where the most recent available data (from 2017) shows that 32% of girls are married before they reach the age of 18, and 4% before age 15. And from Zimbabwe, I’ll be supporting the US activists who are working to push other US states to follow Delaware’s example.



Posted By Alexandra Kotowski (Zimbabwe)

Posted Jun 7th, 2018


  • Ali West

    June 7, 2018


    I really liked the way that you related child marriage in Zimbabwe to child marriage in the US – it really helps me to put myself in the shoes of a girl halfway around the world. I am excited to see what the next ten weeks hold for you and WAP! Supporting you from DC.

  • Princia Vas

    June 7, 2018


    Good luck on your journey to campaign against Child Marriage and make a difference!

  • Colleen Denny

    June 7, 2018


    Amazing blog Alex – you’re the perfect fit to be the Peace Fellow supporting WAP this summer! #TeamAfrica

  • Samantha Givens

    June 12, 2018


    Best of luck on your journey! I’m so excited to hear more about the work you’re going to do. Great first post!

  • Karen

    June 13, 2018


    Your knowledge of child marriage in the US and abroad, along with your passion for advocacy work makes you the ideal fellow to start this partnership between AP and WAP! We’ll be following your work closely from Washington to understand this issue that harms millions of girls all over the world. I can’t wait to learn more about WAP’s work and read some profiles of their beneficiaries through your blogs. Keep up the great work!

  • Corinne Cummings

    June 20, 2018


    Hi there, Alexandra. I am one of AP’s new interns. It’s a pleasure to meet you via your blog post. I look forward to reading more about the work you will be doing in Zimbabwe. The concept of child marriage is appalling; I commend you for your efforts through the fight in ending child marriage in Zimbabwe. I am cognizant of this issue at hand within the United States; however, I have not studied child marriage globally. Thank you for bringing this information with facts to all of our attention. Through your inspirational work, you will be giving women a voice that will aid in combating this problem. I am looking forward to following up with your progress through your future posts on this matter. Keep up the good work! Best of luck, Corinne.

  • Donna Olson

    July 10, 2018


    Thank you for educating me on the U.S.’s child marriage problem, you have given me a lot of new information. This was a great introduction to the current legal status of child marriage in Zimbabwe as well!

  • iain

    July 13, 2018


    Great opening blog, which sets up the problem and draws some fascinating links between the US and Zimbabwe. Look forward to reading more!

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