Dustin Pledger


Dustin Pledger

Dustin grew up in rural northwest Georgia. He graduated with a bachelor’s degree in philosophy and is currently a graduate student at Brandeis University’s Heller School of Social Policy and Management where he is pursuing an M.A. in Coexistence and Conflict. Dustin is a Returned Peace Corps Volunteer who served two years in Oromia, Ethiopia. There he worked as an English Language Teacher Trainer, helping to improve the teaching methodology of primary school English teachers. During his time in Oromia, he was involved in many secondary projects, including sanitation, HIV/AIDS, and leadership training for young women. At the end of his two years in Oromia, Dustin was selected to serve as a Peace Corps Volunteer Leader in the Ethiopian region of Tigray, where he would help establish and co-manage a regional office which sought to support the work of the Peace Corps Volunteers living in the region by conducting site visits, identifying future sites, and maintaining relationships with volunteers’ host organizations.



Oblivio

19 Jun

Oblivio is a Latin word that means to forget. Etymologists are a little hazy on how the word was formed – some speculate that it comes from the combination of ob (over) and liveo (to become dark) – literally meaning to be cast over in darkness. The French word “oublier” comes from it – to forget. The French invented a particular type of dungeon back in the 1300s where the only access comes from a hatch in a high ceiling; they called it an oubliette – a place you put people to forget them.

And of course, oblivio is just one letter away from “oblivion” which we have in English. And it still retains the same meaning – to be completely forgotten. It’s funny – the dictionary.com definition uses the example of “a former movie star now in oblivion.” It seems odd to have your first example of a word be a complete hyperbole – if that former movie star had truly passed into oblivion, we wouldn’t know about her, now would we?

Growing up, I think I read the word oblivion a few times and used context clues to figure it meant something like “annihilation” – and dictionary.com acknowledges that use, but there’s a relationship between those two words that is deeper than a glance at a thesaurus would reveal.

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Yesterday started with Ram, the head of NEFAD, and I hitching a ride with a few volunteers to a neighborhood on the northern outskirts of Kathmandu. We arrived at a house and I was introduced to our host – he soon gingerly removed a black and white photo from the wall of a handsome young man with the beginnings of a moustache. “That’s my son,” my host told me. That picture was the most recent he had. That picture was taken over thirteen years ago.

His son was not alone – in many ways, his case was typical among the people who were forcibly disappeared in Nepal during the civil war there from 1996-2006; he was male (90% were male), young (half of those disappeared were 25 and younger) and disappeared in 2002 – the peak year of disappearances. He was also an active student leader and politically outspoken.

Several more people gathered at the house before we headed off. We walked for a while before we wound up at Guhesori School in Goldhunga. It would be here that the gathering would take place.

I hesitate to append a word more specific than gathering. Ceremony? There was a little of that, certainly. Rally? Well, I could see that too. It was those things and more: a meeting, conference, protest, and memorial.

There were volunteers hurriedly making preparations – arranging chairs, raising banners, and testing the humble sound system. All the while, children looked on, only now leaving their classrooms as their day at school ended.

 

Preparing for Meeting

 

Volunteers, teachers, and students milled about for several hours until, spontaneously, a man grabbed a microphone and began speaking.

What followed in the afternoon was a series of impassioned speeches by parents – far too many parents. Thirteen years ago, four students from that school were disappeared; the school has become a rallying point around which the relatives in the surrounding districts have gathered – a symbol of the brutality and impunity of a campaign which targeted young and old alike.

Scarves were given to all of the relatives of the missing present and a moment of silence was held in their honor. But the most touching part of the entire event involved the two seats of honor at the front of the stage – seats which were empty but for the posters of two young men who were disappeared thirteen years today. Floral wreaths were draped over them and one by one, the relatives of the disappeared stepped before them and paid their respects by blessing the posters with a tilaka. Some relatives even raised a fist after doing so as a sign of solidarity: “You are not forgotten. You mattered. Your life before your disappearance was not in vain.”

 

Paying his Respects

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Therein lies the importance of holding this event at that school, on that day, with students of all ages present. There is a real threat that the earthquakes in April have irrevocably changed the political climate and will in Nepal to face the horrific history surrounding the some 1,500 individuals who were taken from their families. “Let’s look forward, not back,” is a common retort to the subject among both those in power and some citizens on the street.

But these parents and their communities cannot help but look back – they cannot forget. You could see it in the pained expressions and strained voices as they spoke to the crowd; one needn’t understand Nepali to hear their story.

In truth, oblivion and annihilation are one and the same. When something has been forgotten utterly, it truly no longer exists, and in order for something to be annihilated, even its memory must be fully erased. Thirteen years ago powerful men decided to erase hundreds and hundreds of young, idealistic students with bright futures ahead of them. They wanted to cast these people into oblivion. They failed.

Bipin Bhandar. Dil Bahadur Rai. Krishna Basnet. Devraj Paudel.

The parents remember, the community remembers, and the school remembers. They may have been taken from their families, communities and schools, but their memory lives on.

Posted By Dustin Pledger

Posted Jun 19th, 2015

4 Comments

  • Annika

    June 25, 2015

     

    Why, some might say, are NEFAD and The Advocacy Project focusing on securing justice for people who disappeared in Nepal 15 years ago, when there is still so much immediate devastation from this year’s earthquake?

    To me, your post captures the answer perfectly. There is no single issue in Nepal. The need for disaster relief does not erase decades of injustice, nor does the need for remembrance and retribution overshadow that of rebuilding and recovery. Shorter-term and longer-term challenges weave together in an intricate, multi-layered mix underlying Nepali society. Too often, so-called “forward-looking” policies neglect adequate attention to “past” issues that still effect the future in such a profound way. We must not forget those who are so often cast into “oblivion.”

  • Wade McIntyre

    June 28, 2015

     

    An illuminating post about the challenges facing Nepalese in addition to the earthquake aftermath. Thank you for your perspective on the disappearances of these young activists at the hands of the government.

  • Josh

    July 4, 2015

     

    Chilling yet defiant. I can’t think of any other way to describe this blog. I was immersed in the story and I can honestly say that it provoked profound thought. I would say it gives voice to the voiceless, but you have made it abundantly clear that this community has not been silenced.

  • It is so amazing to me how similar the missions are between our two CBOs. One of BOSFAM’s slogans talks about keeping the memory of those lost alive and “from oblivion.” There is so much fear in being eradicated, in being forgotten, and its happening everywhere. Thanks for sharing from a part of the world I think many might not think of when talking about this issue.

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